JB0704
I Gots Goats
Sorry for the long winded OP. I hope I can generate some conversation which goes a little deeper than accusations and asking me to just "love the church and all of it's warts." I would love to get some responses, but let's please try to have a discussion here and not an attack of me personally (as in "you sound like a what's in it for me kind-of guy"). If you want me to send you a list of the "service" I have done I will. Also.....I KNOW BOTH SIDES TO EVERY STORY I HAVE EVER RELATED ON THIS FORUM. Please do not insinuate that I am passing along gossip.
I hope some of you who are pastors of small "traditional" church relate the way your church reflects the NT church. I would like those of you who attend or lead contemporary churches relate how your church reflects the NT church.
If we are going to say "go to church," can we explain "why?"
Here goes.......
HF asked a few questions in another thread, so I wanted to address them seperately and leave the Mathew 18 thread alone. Here is the quote........
I fundamentally disagree with that assertion. From my perspective, most people will sit in ANY church that satisfies their need for entertainment, and disregard what they percieve as "minutia." IF needed, I will provide multiple links to churches which have in their "values" statements clearly unbiblical leadership structures (I have posted plenty on here before). Most of these churches are growing, and full every Sunday.
This is another problem I have. Christians will line up in record numbers to buy a chicken sandwich to protest gay marriage, but they will not lift one finger to correct the wrongs at "home." I view this as a fundamental disregard of the "speck / log" concept of judgement. And I have difficulty "playing along." We want to judge others, but we can't handle being judged ourselves.
I have tried visiting churches a good bit lately, but I see a lot of the same stuff I always saw. Budget defecits. Marketing. Production for entertainment value. "Pastor led" churches....not "elder led." I feel dirty being part of it. People want to stand against other people. But we don't want to look at the mirror. WE talk about standing for our faith....but we are so selective as to where we take our "stands." And, usually, we end up picking on the "weakest" people who need the most help.
I miss the community aspect of church. What I do not miss is the phoniness of greeters on Sunday smiling and handing me an information card knowing full well that they don't give a crap about me or my family. They want me in the pew writing checks. Let's at least be honest. I don't want anybody to claim to be "family" if they are not willing to treat folks like family. Otherwise, it's a lie.
Who am I? Who are you? If we are supposed to be a "church family" shouldn't we at least be willing to get to know each other? Church today is so foreign to the church I read about in the NT. It's not "cool" anymore to make bread for each other. Yes, there are very good churches out there which are elder led. But, the closest thing I see to the NT church is the contemporary small groups which meet in homes.
I welcome your thoughts.....(Huntinfool...you asked the questions, I am particularly interested in your thoughts).
I hope some of you who are pastors of small "traditional" church relate the way your church reflects the NT church. I would like those of you who attend or lead contemporary churches relate how your church reflects the NT church.
If we are going to say "go to church," can we explain "why?"
Here goes.......
HF asked a few questions in another thread, so I wanted to address them seperately and leave the Mathew 18 thread alone. Here is the quote........
...the biblical model for church leadership is a plurality of elders. There are LOTS of christians out there who will tell you the very same thing.
I fundamentally disagree with that assertion. From my perspective, most people will sit in ANY church that satisfies their need for entertainment, and disregard what they percieve as "minutia." IF needed, I will provide multiple links to churches which have in their "values" statements clearly unbiblical leadership structures (I have posted plenty on here before). Most of these churches are growing, and full every Sunday.
This is another problem I have. Christians will line up in record numbers to buy a chicken sandwich to protest gay marriage, but they will not lift one finger to correct the wrongs at "home." I view this as a fundamental disregard of the "speck / log" concept of judgement. And I have difficulty "playing along." We want to judge others, but we can't handle being judged ourselves.
I have tried visiting churches a good bit lately, but I see a lot of the same stuff I always saw. Budget defecits. Marketing. Production for entertainment value. "Pastor led" churches....not "elder led." I feel dirty being part of it. People want to stand against other people. But we don't want to look at the mirror. WE talk about standing for our faith....but we are so selective as to where we take our "stands." And, usually, we end up picking on the "weakest" people who need the most help.
I miss the community aspect of church. What I do not miss is the phoniness of greeters on Sunday smiling and handing me an information card knowing full well that they don't give a crap about me or my family. They want me in the pew writing checks. Let's at least be honest. I don't want anybody to claim to be "family" if they are not willing to treat folks like family. Otherwise, it's a lie.
Who am I? Who are you? If we are supposed to be a "church family" shouldn't we at least be willing to get to know each other? Church today is so foreign to the church I read about in the NT. It's not "cool" anymore to make bread for each other. Yes, there are very good churches out there which are elder led. But, the closest thing I see to the NT church is the contemporary small groups which meet in homes.
I welcome your thoughts.....(Huntinfool...you asked the questions, I am particularly interested in your thoughts).