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Useles Billy’s Spiritual Counselor
OFten, dismissing a person's quarrels as being so simple is the catalyst that leads them out the door.
Some folks don't like music, or preachin' style, or personalities, or the drapes. These are superficial items that are likely just reasons to go when a person already had their foot out the door.
My issues with the church are institutional, not the dismissal of anything based on the "imperfect people" perspective. I'm sorry, but I can't attend a church that does not have a solid biblical foundation for why it is structured the way it is. I can't attend a church where they make up some non-sense about following a head pastor's vision.
That's why I left..........the reason I never went back is that most folks don't care. They say "well we are here to serve," or "the church is made of imperfect people."
Would they be so dismissive of a church with a pastor who was married to a dude? Just because they enjoyed working the nursery? I can throw all sorts of hypotheticals out that would cause a mass exodus from a local congregation..........but, the things that don't have the direct impact, such as leadership structure, which turn it into a faith based entertainment business instead of a church, are over looked.
Fellas like me are "naysayers," because we believe in things. I'm still idealistic enough to think beliefs are cool, and going along to get along is what will ultimately kill the local church........if it hasn't already.
I've done told you the church im at is the best church in the world. If someone dosnt think that about their church they don't need to be there. The Lord has put me right where he wants me to be and if you would seek The Lord he will put you in the right church also.
Now the bible says in acts that they where in one mind and one accord and The Lord added daily as such be saved. This is my goal as a pastor. The bible also says let us consider one another to provoke unto love and good works. This is what we should be doing and this is what I strive to do.