I know God allowed all kinds of things into my live, which he uses to strip me of my personal sense of worth.
I don't believe God allows in the manner in which I perceive you are using it. I believe that God only allows what we allow. Whatever we bind shall be bound and whatever we loose shall be loosed. Yes, God can and will use those bad things to teach and grow us, but he doesn't orchestrate every event in our lives. We are drawn away by our own lusts and enticed.
If I have mistaken how you used your statement, I apologize and please correct me.