buckpasser
Senior Member
I hope it doesn’t offend you @oldfella1962 but I’ll be praying as well.
I was tasked with making a similar decision for my grandfather. I likely made the wrong decision and opted to have the doctors try and battle his ailments one last time. In the end my decision likely cost him some pain and discomfort and I have to live with that. I based my decision on the fact that he ALWAYS fought hard for his health and I felt that he would have wanted to keep trying if he had a voice in that moment. Maybe I was wrong? I think having to live with his death possibly occurring sooner than necessary if I had decided to let him go might have been easier on him but much harder on me. It was no fun and still isn’t several years later. I can’t imagine what all this would be like without faith. There’s no shame in reconsidering your position on the Creator if you get to that point. Just a suggestion. I hope all goes well!
I was tasked with making a similar decision for my grandfather. I likely made the wrong decision and opted to have the doctors try and battle his ailments one last time. In the end my decision likely cost him some pain and discomfort and I have to live with that. I based my decision on the fact that he ALWAYS fought hard for his health and I felt that he would have wanted to keep trying if he had a voice in that moment. Maybe I was wrong? I think having to live with his death possibly occurring sooner than necessary if I had decided to let him go might have been easier on him but much harder on me. It was no fun and still isn’t several years later. I can’t imagine what all this would be like without faith. There’s no shame in reconsidering your position on the Creator if you get to that point. Just a suggestion. I hope all goes well!