chase870
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Been a large pile of people killed with a 38.
So, there are a bunch of good suggestions already here.
If the criteria is 4 inch revolver in .357 and its intended use is home defense, I'm surprised nobody mentioned a S&W 686+. Its got 7 rounds and recoil is easy easy easy to manage. If that's a little too heavy, take a look at the R8. Its lighter and you can put 8 rounds in it. or if that has too long a barrel, 327 Night Guard has a shorter barrel but same capacity. just harder to find one.
You also mentioned 45. I know the SW model 625JM has a 4 inch barrel and holds 6 rounds of 45 acp. I haven't shot one but I'd imagine the form factor of an N frame with 45 acp's relative low recoil would be a pleasant shooter.
Hard to go wrong though. There are a lot of good options out there. I think the LCRx and SP101 are both sweet but if you aren't gonna carry it around all day, why not go bigger?
I can't recommend a S&W gun that has the internal lock.
Maybe one day they will drop it from their guns.
Do you oppose people buying such guns for POLITICAL reasons, to boycott a gun company that supported some gun control /gun safety measures back some 20 years ago, or do you actually fear the lock presents some real risk of failing at the wrong time and disabling your gun when you expect it to shoot?
I've had both Taurus and S&W revolvers with these internal disabling locks for years, and the one on my Taurus pistol has been used regularly-- whenever I leave the gun unattended in my parked car. No problems.
The only time I've had my gun disabled unintentionally is when I FORGOT to reactivate it. (Now, to prevent that from happening, I drop the mag and set it aside whenever the lock is engaged. I can't pick up the gun without noticing the mag is missing, and that's my clue to look at the internal lock.)
SW 642 Airweight if it has to be a revolver.
6 shots are enough to send a perp scrambling for the for door or window from whence they entered.
The 642 is a J-frame gun. In .38 caliber, you only get 5 shots.
BUT, why in the world would you recommend a tiny pocket sized gun for the home defense role???
If the gun is NOT going to be carried, but simply stored in the drawer or on the nightstand,
you don't need a lightweight.
Very light guns have more recoil and muzzle flip.
You don't need a stubby little barrel.
You don't need tiny sights that are made not to snag your clothing during a draw.
What you'd want is a larger gun with good sights, a good trigger pull, & decent ammo capacity.
That’s why I recommended the classic of the classics. 10-6. His father most likely will be familiar with that gun if he was in the Air Force as some pilots carried them.All these responses are interesting but many are non responsive to the original post and question. The OP states his father wants a REVOLVER therefore recommendations for shotguns, semi auto pistons, cannons, and hand grenades are by definition non responsive.