HuntDawg
Senior Member
My wife and I have been married for 6 years. She is an awesome partner and friend. She was raised right. My mother considers her a daughter and could not have asked for a more perfect daughter in law. We have no children and will not due to our late start in marrying. Too risky for a child's health
Now for the unbelievable. We are currently in Florida with her Sister and husband, their 7 children, and my wife's parents. Her family lives 12 hours from us, so we only see them about 4 to 6 times per year when we fly up.
My wife and I are in our own condo here, the others have their own condo 1 floor up. The nieces and nephews range from 18 to 12 years old. The two oldest boys brought their girlfriends, and the oldest girl brought her boyfriend.
Here we go. As we helped them get settled, we realized that the three kids with their dates are each sleeping in the same beds together. I could not believe my eyes. My wife is sick to her stomach. She was not raised this way. Heck, while we were dating in our 30's and would go visit, we slept in separate bed rooms. It never crossed our minds to sleep in her parents home in the same bed. In am no saint, but I be danged if I would even think to sleep in the same bed with a mans daughter in his own home with out being married.
To top it all off, this is happening right in front of my wife's parents, who by the way, are at the church every time the door is open.
We know this is killing her parents, but I can assure you they do not have the guts to rock the boat.
I told my wife that her sister can raise her children anyway they want too, but I will not pretend this is not happening. I do not know how to handle this.
Should we wait until the trip is over, and mention to both that we are offended? Should we speak up now.
My biggest problem is the fact that it is being done in front of the grandparents and we both know they are offended.
Regardless of what we do, we will never go on a trip with them again with this type of behavior. If we had children, I know we would have packed our bags and left.
We will still visit them, but I will never be put in this situation again.
Any advice, before I make an - I AM A POTTY MOUTH -- I AM A POTTY MOUTH -- I AM A POTTY MOUTH - of myself?
Now for the unbelievable. We are currently in Florida with her Sister and husband, their 7 children, and my wife's parents. Her family lives 12 hours from us, so we only see them about 4 to 6 times per year when we fly up.
My wife and I are in our own condo here, the others have their own condo 1 floor up. The nieces and nephews range from 18 to 12 years old. The two oldest boys brought their girlfriends, and the oldest girl brought her boyfriend.
Here we go. As we helped them get settled, we realized that the three kids with their dates are each sleeping in the same beds together. I could not believe my eyes. My wife is sick to her stomach. She was not raised this way. Heck, while we were dating in our 30's and would go visit, we slept in separate bed rooms. It never crossed our minds to sleep in her parents home in the same bed. In am no saint, but I be danged if I would even think to sleep in the same bed with a mans daughter in his own home with out being married.
To top it all off, this is happening right in front of my wife's parents, who by the way, are at the church every time the door is open.
We know this is killing her parents, but I can assure you they do not have the guts to rock the boat.
I told my wife that her sister can raise her children anyway they want too, but I will not pretend this is not happening. I do not know how to handle this.
Should we wait until the trip is over, and mention to both that we are offended? Should we speak up now.
My biggest problem is the fact that it is being done in front of the grandparents and we both know they are offended.
Regardless of what we do, we will never go on a trip with them again with this type of behavior. If we had children, I know we would have packed our bags and left.
We will still visit them, but I will never be put in this situation again.
Any advice, before I make an - I AM A POTTY MOUTH -- I AM A POTTY MOUTH -- I AM A POTTY MOUTH - of myself?