OwlRNothing
Senior Member
This whole "moving to TN" thing is really working on my anxiety disorder. Can I ask for some prayers that maybe somehow I can find some peace about it? In our current situation, we're going to have to rent somewhere for a bit before we can buy a place and I'm not working right now due to some health issues - but the thing is, everyone up there wants you to have three times the rent in income. That is leaving us with some very bad choices when it comes to neighborhoods and I'm one of those guys that realizes what kind of world we live in and I want to do everything I can to keep my wife and I safe from violence, drug dealings, etc.
My wife feels like this is what God wants us to do, but I'm not so sure. I guess I could use some prayers for that to be resolved. She's taken a new job up there, so it's settled we're moving - but I'm having a hard time dealing with not knowing where we'll end up or how this is going to work out since it seems that right now we really can't afford to live there, even with her making more money. As soon as I go back to work, we'll be fine. Heck, we'll be fine if I can't go back to work as far as surviving. I just can't stop worrying that we'll get stuck someplace dangerous because even though we have plenty of money in the bank, the 3X income requirement is going to keep us from renting something in a better area. Thanks guys.
My wife feels like this is what God wants us to do, but I'm not so sure. I guess I could use some prayers for that to be resolved. She's taken a new job up there, so it's settled we're moving - but I'm having a hard time dealing with not knowing where we'll end up or how this is going to work out since it seems that right now we really can't afford to live there, even with her making more money. As soon as I go back to work, we'll be fine. Heck, we'll be fine if I can't go back to work as far as surviving. I just can't stop worrying that we'll get stuck someplace dangerous because even though we have plenty of money in the bank, the 3X income requirement is going to keep us from renting something in a better area. Thanks guys.